Summer Hair Routine

Jun 19, 2013

Okay so let me say that I have been very busy lately, my absence on here is crazy. Okay to get down to business..

Hair Routine is very simple:
1) protective styles
2) moisturize
3) Vitamins and Hair/Skin Supplements

This summer my focus is maintaining and gaining length for my hair, so I braided it all up. My goal by the end of this year is to be bra strap length...well till next time.

Sincerely Fay,

I'm on Bloglovin...

Jun 13, 2013

Okay so gfc is dying and that means the worst for bloggers...
So in that case I'm announcing that im on bloglovin, a handy little site that allows you to continue to follow your blogs!!!! So click on the link below!

Sincerely Fay,

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WHat I wOUld WeAr IF...

Jun 8, 2013

Hey Soul-childs,

So one of my gorgeous email followers asked me to do a "what I would wear if" post, or just WIWWI (love acronyms & abbreviating), so to my luv, this is for ya!!! I thought this would be a fun little break from the stress of writing my poem book. Enjoy!!!

What I would wear if I'm writing thee great novel of my career...

What I would wear if I just found out if my favorite actor was in my neighborhood & I only have 5min...

What I would wear if I woke up late for a job interview and don't know what to wear...

What I would wear if my brother invited me to anime convention...

What I would wear if I lost a game against my boyfriend...which I did recently *sigh!!!

Enter xLoveHappyx Giveaway!!!

Jun 7, 2013

Soul-childs everywhere ATTENTION,

Okay so I'm so excited to be entering this give-away, as you can tell. So this will be very short and simple!!! This blogette does not only have a cool blog, she is having a big summer giveaway so go check her out!!!! BTW, feel free to look around, really cool blog!!!

Sincerely Fay,

What God is Teaching Me Blogger Link-Up Event...

Jun 6, 2013

Hey Soul-Childs,

So there is this blogger link-up buzz going around and I would like to join it, especially because it's something I feel really deeply about. So I found out about this link-up on darling bloggette, GETTIN' PRETTY blog, go check this lovely lady out, her blog is such an inspiring place. But then her blog led me to the wonderful woman named Cassie, drop by her spot @ Sage and join this awe inspiring link up. Okay so lets gets started!

So the ask, is to share what God is teaching us about in certain times our life: failure, pain, waiting, not having enough money, facing disappointment, and facing criticism....

Remember this what God has taught me so our views may not be P.I.C. but its okay. BTW  P.I.C. means partner in crime ;-)


Failure is good to have in our life! No one person is the same. It took me failing at so many things to figure out who I am as a person. Failure is a double-edge sword; it helps a person realize what their limits are or helps a person figure out how to push for more in life. For me, failure made me realize that I have a strong sense of ambition and an earnest desire to never give up. (No I'm not overly competitive, I just know what I want in life and how I'm going to go out there and get it. But a healthy dose of competition is needed every once in a while. Hehehe.) Failure is just a stepping stone that each and everyone of us have to overcome in life.


Okay so I have dealt with my fair share of pain in life. From something as small as a stomach cramp to something big that hits me emotionally. Pain comes at us in all forms and as humans we have to learn to deal with it early on in life. Pain brings us together, and it makes us realize that we are not alone in certain situations. We grow out of painful situations, and it serves as one of His many tests (a test of our faith)in life. Pain doesn't last forever, remember this!


Have you ever heard the phrase, "Good things will come to those who wait..." Well it is true, I can't even begin to describe how many times I have endured long waits for things in my life and the outcome was glorious. Rushing things may lead to disastrous outcomes. Being patient is all worth it!!!

Not having enough money

God knows what we need, trust me He does! So then we have to say, well what is enough? He will give us what we need. I can recall a time a friend and I wanted to go to Coachella, and we all know how expensive that can be. I mean we were set on it, planned it all out but in the end due to financial reasons we could not attend. We were bummed and slumped into a "only if I had more money" conversation (we all get to this convo, its ok, its natural). Then, it just so happens that a charity event was going on, that we attended, it was awesome to see the effect we can have on other people's lives, it was way better.You can sum up your own moral of the story.

Facing Disappointment

Disappointment, Henry David Thoreau says, "If we will be quiet and ready enough, we shall find compensation in every disappointment." We all face it! Problem is that we don't know how to deal with it. Our disappointments matter to God, and God has a way of taking even some of the hardest moments in life and making them into something better.

Facing Criticism

The truth hurt sometimes, we need the truth to figure out what we are doing right or wrong in life. Though it may see harsh at first, take in to consideration one person criticism can reflect the way many others think, hence the phrase, "great minds think alike".Don't take offense their only trying to help you!! But don't forget that these are still someone else's opinion and don't take their words too deeply. There is some people who don't know know that there is a line between insulting and criticizing!

-Sincerely Fay,

Too Good Lemon Cake from The Londoner...

Jun 3, 2013

Hey Luvs,

Ahh, I know what your thinking three posts within hours of each other, whats going on!!! Welp, nothing much, hehehe. Anyways while I was scrolling through my daily blog reads, I came across a blog post that literally made me hungry! Yes hungry for lemon cake!

Her post is full of pics that will make your stomach rejoice!!! So when you get time to visit her lovely space, go now, let me know what you think!!!

So go check out fellow blogger The Londoner, her recipe is mouthwatering, going to my kitchen later on to experiment...

Sincerely Fay,

Tips & Tricks: Extension


Hey Luvs,

So here is an extension of my last post. This will be super short!!! Okay so most bloggers after a while get bloggers block and can't figure out what to post and its very confusing. And if you have been blogging for a while, you all know how that can feel. So I will help solve you bloggers block and give you a lead.

While I cannot tell you what to write, I can surely point you in the right direction. So check out the link below to help you figure out what to write about next. Happy Blogging!!!!

Bloggers Relief

-Sincerely Fay,

Tips & Tricks: DIY Pinker Lips & Lighter Armpits

Hello Luvs,

I don't know about you but I really don't like spending a lot of money to get things and products I want all the time, so with a little searching I came across some cheaper alternatives for a lot of expensive products I used to get the same results. Today I will talk about how you get pinker lips and lighter armpits....


  • wax once or twice a month
  • buffing pads with soap and water gently scrub under arms
  • complete dry arms before you apply deodorant alternative is to use baking soda as deodorant
  • skin lightening creme for underarms or use potatoes daily (potatoes have natural bleaching agent and no harm to your skin)
  • vinegar to get rid of extra dirt or baking soda and water mix
  • don't wear skin tight dark tops, wear looser tops that don't rub against armpit


  • use a straw to drink dark liquids (dark liquids stain your lips)
  • exfoliate lips 2-3xs a week (virgin oil and sugar mix) then massage the surface of lips
  • toothbrush can also be used to massage your lips
  • put on lip balm
  • use lemon/orange peel rub against lips and then apply lip balm
  • stay dehydrated (64ounces a day)
  • remove dark lipstick off completely at night (if not correctly removed stain lips/making them darker)
  • use spf on lips (tinted lip balm usually have spf)
  • use wet eyeshadow (a color a shade or two lighter to your lip color) or lipstain to get pinker lips
  • red cool-aid can be used as a lip color too

            -Sincerely Fay,
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